Wednesday, April 27, 2011

In loving memorie

Val Douglas Garner
Born June 1, 1923 in Sugar City, Idaho
Passed Away April 16, 2011 in Ammon, Idaho


I always loved.......
His hair
The way he smelled
His stories
Waking up to the smell of him cooking breakfast when we would stay with him, it was always bacon, eggs, toast with huckleberry jam and grape or orange juice.
The way his blue eyes sparkled
when he hugged me, I felt safe and loved
How he was always warm
The sound of his laugh
The family reunions
The pinatas
The way the screen door would slam
How his house always felt cosy and full of love

Goodbye For Now


It was so nice to see my family.  I always enjoy getting to see them. This was at the viewing friday night.


My Aunt Leslie is so dear to me.  Grandma Garner pasted away when I was only eight years old.  Leslie    sort of took over that roll in my life. She has always been a source of comfort.  One of my favorite memories with her was in 2001.  My Dad was in his burn accident and she came down to help out.  She taught me how to can peaches.  That fall the peaches were so sweet.  I never cared for peaches much until that year.  Now when the peaches get ripe my heart is full of the loving memories she gave me.  It was a blessing for me to experience the love that she had for my Dad and the rest of our family.  When I got married she made me my temple apron. It is absolutely beautiful.  Every time I visit the temple I think of the love I have for her.


Me and my cousin Andrea


Doug, Blair, Leslie and Dad. All the living siblings of Val and Virginia. It makes me happy to think of My Grandpa getting to be with my Grandma and their daughter Kathy.


My little family on Saturday at the funeral.  The funeral service was beautiful, full of loving memories of  Grandpa.  My favorite talk was given by his brother Joe.  It was perfect.  I knew they were always close but it was lovely to he Joe speak of their times together. Everyone mentioned how in love my Grandparents were.  I don't know how I would survive without the gospel in my life and the knowledge I have that they are together again; that I will see them again.  This Easter was extra special. Thinking of the sacrifice our Savior made for us so that we can live again.


Grandpa always loved to drive.  This is his old truck, my Dad has had it.  They thought Grandpa would want to ride in it to the cemetery.




Dad gave the dedicatory prayer.


They folded the flag on his casket and gave it to Leslie. It was a beautiful sunny day with a bit of Idaho wind.


Leslie looked so grateful to the men for honoring her Dad for his sacrifice and service in World War II.  Sometime I will have to ask her what her thoughts were at that moment.



Dane after placing his flower on Grandpa's casket.



Walt at the cemetery.  Matt was so great the whole weekend to take care of the kids and let me visit with family and just take everything in.  He is such a good husband and father.


Jane and Eli were so good.  They sat through the entire funeral.  Eli was so sweet and tender to me when he notice the tears in my eyes.  He just hugged me and said" I love you mama."  I hope my kids always call me mama.  I love it!  I am always grateful for his love but especially at that moment.



Matt and Eli at the cemetery.


Hyrum and Walt, happy to be outside.


Dallen, Seth, Dad and Dane


Me and my cousin Michelle


Tay, Grandma Baird, Me and Grandpa Baird.  It was so comforting to have them there.  They have always been so supportive.


 Seth and I


Eli and I


Taylor, Me and Walter


I LOVE this photo of my Mom and I.  The lighting of the photo is really bad but I think it makes it look old.  My Mom is one of the strongest ladies I know.  She is such a rock for not just me but many others.


Dallen and I


Taylor and Zack


Tay, Dad and I. Again, I know the lighting is terrible but I love the way it makes the photo look. Grainy and faded like we took it sixty years ago.


Matt with Hyrum


Jane and Walter doing his silly face.


My cousin Ashlee and I


Lottie Mae and William Lawrence Garner are my Grandpa's parents.  It makes me so happy to think of the happy reunion he is having in the spirit world!


Goodbye for now, until we meet again.  I am looking forward to the day I can see my loved ones again.

Sunday, April 24, 2011

One of my favorite Holidays

We gave the kids pillow pets for Easter this year.  I think they all loved them.



This weekend we went to Idaho for my Grandpa Garners funeral.  It was a beautiful, wonderful weekend.  I had planed a special Easter lesson for my kid and made eggs to dye.  After we got home from church I think the weekend of holding my emotions in caught up with me.  I think I hold them in around people because once the flood gate is opened it is had to close it back up agin.  I was so exhausted today, I fell asleep and didn't do any of my Easter plans with the kids.  We went down to McConkies for Easter dinner.  It was  yummy and low key.  At first I didn't feel like going, I felt like I could sleep the rest of the day.  I was happy I got myself up and went down to bountiful.  It was so nice to have their company.  My heart is full of love and gratitude today.  Love and gratitude for my savior Jesus Christ, for my family and that we can live together again.  What a gift!  Overall it has been a lovely Easter weekend.  I am to sleepy to wright about the funeral, that will have to come another day.  Happy Easter, it has always been one of my favorite holidays.

Saturday, April 9, 2011

Happy 4th Birthday Hyrum


Hyrum has moved on from the dinos to Star Wars.  At four years old he is practically a Star Wars expert.  It is stinking funny to talk to him about it.  He just go's on and on with all the little facts he knows.  He is a detail oriented kid.  He is very content taking his time.  With everything, walking some where, eating, playing.  I think it is because he is just taking every little detail in.  Hyrum is my little buddy.  I have absolutely cherished this past year with Hyrum.  Jane and Eli are at school while Walt is napping, so Hyrum and I get time just the two of us every day!  It is wonderful.  He is so easy going and fun to be with.  He makes me so happy and thankful every day for him!  Happy Birthday my little Jedi Hyrum.  I love you!



Hyrum With his new Star wars gear.  I think he is going to sleep with it!  
He helped me make his Star Wars cupcakes today.


We went to BOondocks to play laser tag for Hyrums Birthday.  Our little family love's laser tag, but Hyrum the most.  It was fitting for his Star Wars theme.  We had a great time.  I am so thankful for all the wonderful people in Hyrums life who love him.  I know know he feel's loved!


Hyrum asked to have his photo taken with this Star Wars guy.  He is a manikin that stands at the laser tag entrance.  

Thursday, April 7, 2011

Eli's piano recital


Eli with all the Let's Play Music classes and their teacher Amy York.


Grandma McConkie, Eli and Grandma Garner.  I love the support we constantly have from our family.  I am always grateful that we get to have them come to all of our special events.


Harrison Farmer (Eli's B.F.F.)  and Eli after the recital.


THis has been a really exciting year in the program.  Eli is learning to read music, play cords and memorize the key board!  I have loved watching him learn and succeed. I have hatted getting him to practice when he doesn't want to, which is most of the time.  It has forced me to be creative with my bribes.  I am thankful, for the most part, that I get to have this time with Eli.  He is such a sweet boy.


I couldn't get any really great photos of Eli on the stage.  He looked so cute up there with his key board!

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Three sweet girls


Audrey, Jane and Emily gave me the best Birthday surprise I have ever had!  They were so sweet and thoughtful.  I loved seeing how excited they were to bring me into the play room that they had cleaned "spotless."  Now, this was a BIG job.  The play room was quite the mess.  I was so impressed that they stuck with it and did the whole thing.  Thanks girls for making my Birthday so awesome!  I love you!

Monday, April 4, 2011

Teaching children the joy of gardening

Matt sure has gotten a lot of publicity for his pumpkin.  I was happy to find Larry Sagers used our family as an example for his latest article in the Deseret News.  I wish I could say I was more of an influence on my children with this but the truth is, it is all Matt.  I am so grateful that he shares his passion and love for growing things with the kids.  They have so much fun.  Eli grew corn, Jane carrots and Hyrum Watermelon.  Thanks Matt for being such a wonderful Father and Husband!


As a father, I trained six reluctant gardeners. For those of you going through this stage of life, there is justice. Now grown with families of their own, most have now realized that gardening is important and they want to teach their children to garden.

Being a grandpa gardener is the easiest. I bought a couple dozen children's-size garden implements and made certain each grandchild had one or more as a Christmas present.

I bring them some seeds, add in a few plants and then add lots of playtime and advice. I can happily leave things like getting the kids to work hard and do more difficult tasks to their parents.

Children's gardening benefits

Cornell University Department of Horticulture conducted extensive studies on the benefits of gardening with children. Those who work in gardens excelled in seven areas:

An increased interest in eating fruits and vegetables. This leads to more healthful diets and nutritional awareness.

A greater appreciation for working with neighborhood adults and being more agreeable about it.

An increased interest in keeping their homes and neighborhoods clean and in good appearance.

More positive attitudes about environmental issues.

An improvement in their behavior, increased self-esteem and a greater sense of ownership and responsibility. When they worked with family members, they fostered better relationships with them.

Better physical and mental health, such as reduced stress levels, lower blood pressure and reduced muscle tension.

Higher scores on scientific achievement tests due to the hands-on knowledge that they had versus the students who had no garden-based learning activities.

Sunday, April 3, 2011

Pumpkin trip part 2/Palmyra New York



For the second half of our trip we went to Palmyra New York.  We had not seen the church history sights there.  I was worried about going while it was so cold but it turned out to be really neat.  I think it made our experience more personal.  There were not many people visiting.  We go a lot of attention from the missionaries and got to spend more time (quiet time too) than if it were the busy season.  We did a session in the Temple.  It was beautiful.  Some of the windows look out over the sacred grove.


This is in the up-stairs of the Joseph Smith cabin.  It was cool to think about sacred things that took place there.

This is in the Joseph Smith cabin.  Key Events at the Smith Family Log Home
- The Angel Moroni appeared to Joseph Smith, Jr. three times in the night of September 21-22, 1823 in the upper room of the home.
- While the Smith family was still living here, Joseph's older brother Alvin died.
- The exact location of the home was discovered in 1982 and a replica was constructed in 1997-1998. It was dedicated by President Gordon B. Hinckley on March 27, 1998.




The front of the Smith Cabin.



The view of the temple walking from the Smith cabin to the frame house.


The frame house.  The Joseph Smith Sr. family moved into a new frame home in late 1825. Alvin Smith, Joseph's older brother, started construction on the house on the Smith farm in 1822. After Alvin's death in 1823, the family completed it.
Joseph brought his new wife, Emma, to live here in January 1827. Eight months later, he and Emma drove a carriage to the Hill Cumorah, where Joseph received the golden plates from the angel Moroni. The Prophet often kept the plates hidden inside and around the frame home. Persecution forced him to leave Manchester in late 1827, and Joseph and Emma went to live with her family in Harmony, Pennsylvania.
In this home, Joseph learned that his scribe Martin Harris had lost 116 pages of the Book of Mormon translation. Later that year, a schoolteacher named Oliver Cowdery came to board here with the Smith family. Oliver learned of Joseph's work, and in the spring of 1829 he went to Harmony and became the Prophet's new scribe.
Elder George Albert Smith purchased the frame home and farm in 1907 and later conveyed ownership to The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. The home was renovated and restored to its original condition in 2000.


The master bedroom inside the frame house.


In the Sacred Grove.


The Apostle tree inside the Sacred Grove.



The Book of Mormon was first printed and sold in the Grandin Building located in downtown Palmyra, New York. After translating the golden plates, Joseph Smith "agreed with Mr. Egbert B. Grandin to print five thousand copies"1 of the Book of Mormon. Publication of the book was financed by Martin Harris, a family friend who mortgaged part of his farm to guarantee the $3,000 printing cost.
In mid-August 1829, the Prophet Joseph, with Martin Harris, Oliver Cowdery, Hyrum Smith, Joseph Smith Sr., and several others gathered around Grandin's press to print and inspect a proof sheet. Joseph declared the work was "excellent," and printing of the book began.2 The Book of Mormon was first offered for sale in Grandin's bookstore on March 26, 1830, as another witness of the divinity and mission of Jesus Christ. It also provides tangible evidence of the prophetic calling of Joseph Smith.
The Church purchased the Grandin Building in 1978 and opened it as a historic site several years later. At the conclusion of extensive restoration in 1998, the building was dedicated as the Book of Mormon Historic Publication Site.


The printing press was so cool.  I wished I could have hoped over the ropes and got my hands on some of the type.  Okay, not really, but I did think it was really cool!


Alvin Smith's grave.


Whitmer home.


Inside the the Whitmer home.  on 6 April 1830, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints was formally organized.


The Hill Cumorah and the plaques on the memorial sight.

The golden plates containing the Book of Mormon were buried in the Hill Cumorah, about three miles southeast of the Smith family farm. In the early hours of September 22, 1823, the angel Moroni showed Joseph Smith in vision exactly where the ancient record was hidden. Later that day, Joseph went to the place shown him by the angel.
"On the west side of this hill, not far from the top, under a stone of considerable size, lay the plates, deposited in a stone box,"1 wrote Joseph. He was not permitted to remove the plates on his first visit, but was instructed by the angel to return to this place every year "until the time should come for obtaining the plates."2 Exactly four years later, the angel delivered the plates to the Prophet Joseph for the purpose of translation and publication.
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints acquired the Hill Cumorah in 1928. A granite monument topped by a nine-foot statue of Moroni was erected at the highest point of the hill in 1935. Today, the Church operates a modern visitors' center at the base of the hill. A dramatic pageant featuring events from the Book of Mormon is held here every summer.



I loved all of the sights!  There was such a amazing spirit there.  I am so grateful we got to go.  I have always felt my testimony of Joseph to be strong but this strengthened it even more!